Activity 1
Wrinkle Boy

Objective: To encourage students to think about their use of put-downs and how that may affect others.
Materials: One sheet of blank paper and a marker.

Activity Description
Engage the students in a brainstorming activity about put-downs. What are some put-downs? (Ask the students to give G-rated answers using appropriate language.) Record the list of put-downs where everyone can see it. On the blank sheet of paper, write the word "boy" in large letters. Make the curve in the y extend all the way around the word to make a face.

Tell the students that this now represents a real boy that could be anyone they know. They can even name him, if they want to. Have the students call out put-downs. As they do this, wrinkle up the paper into a ball, making it smaller and smaller with each put-down. When it gets small enough to fit in the palm of your hand, have them describe what it looks like. Then have the students call out put-ups. As they do this, slowly unwrinkle the paper so that you can see the face again.


Process Questions

  1. What do they notice about the unwrinkled paper?
  2. Is it completely free of wrinkles like it was before?
  3. How do you feel after you get put-down? Put-up?


Activity 2
IslandAdventure.com
Objective: Use this activity in team and consensus building.

IslandAdventure.com is sending you and 5-7 other contest winners to their uninhabited private island in the Galapagos. You are allowed only to bring 7 articles of clothing for the duration of your 28-day "vacation". Supplies and a fresh water source will be provided. You and your group members must choose 10 items listed in order of importance (1 being the most important and 10 being the least) to live on for the next 28 days. It should be assumed that all quantities would be sufficient.

Please Choose From the Following List of Items:
  • Blankets and pillows
  • Fish hooks and fishing wire
  • Cots
  • Soda
  • Bug repellent
  • Short wave radio
  • Twine
  • Mosquito netting
  • Toilet paper
  • Antibacterial soap
  • Toothbrushes and paste
  • Camera with film
  • Two 4-person tents
  • Eight 10 gallon bucket
  • Shovel
  • First Aid Kit
  • Sunblock
  • Inflatable 8 person raft
  • Flares
  • Matches
  • Chocolate
  • Knife
  • Flashlights
  • Watch
  • Lobster and crab traps
  • Coffee
  • Box of tools (hammer, ax, saw, etc.)
  • Protein and vitamin bar
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Other Resources
United States Institute of Peace Digital Library
http://www.usip.org/library/diglib.html

Ohio Commission on Dispute Resolution & Conflict Management

http://www.state.oh.us/cdr